How to get confortable with him and creat pion?

Give it some more time, sometimes it takes time to built all that i know it took me a while with my Bf, i believe it took almost 4 months for me to actually fall in love, and start missing and thinking about him. also u have to relax and not be so focused on that, u have to let go and just let life and love guide u if it comes it will come eventually if not than don't worry u will meet someone who will be a nice guy and who u will have pion with too. just relax and enjoy life. everything always works out in the end.